Prompt # 2
Tell us about a personal quality, talent, accomplishment, contribution or experience that is important to you and defines who you are. How does this quality or accomplishment make you proud and relate to your goals in life?
One of my greatest talents in life is my capability for empathy. I have found I am able to calm friends and loved ones, and listen to their hardships and troubles in a way that makes them feel better when they’re finished. This talent has given me a lot of insight into the human condition, and is why I believe I will excel as a Psychology major in university.
I discovered my capacity for empathy quite by accident. As a young girl, I often found myself the one all of my friends would turn to for consolation or to get a load of their chests. Without mentioning it to each other, my circle of friends knew I was the “designated empathy,” or the person who could understand why they felt the way they felt, and tell them what they needed to feel better. This came without any training, of course, but instead seemed like a natural outgrowth of my personality.
One experience stands out in my mind as exemplary of this talent. In middle school, my best friend’s father died of a heart attack. My friend was devastated and didn’t answer her phone for days. I went over to her house after school and threw pebbles at her window until she invited me inside. She cried on my shoulder, sobbing about how she would never see her father again, or hear his stories, or smell his aftershave. She realized she would miss all the small things that a little girl never notices about her Dad until he’s gone. She thought she’d never be happy again.
I listened to everything she said, hugging her close and wiping away her tears. I told her she’d always have the memories, and that’s all any of us ever have. We talked all evening and by nightfall she was smiling again. I realized for the first time that I could help people out of their darkest places, and a Psychology degree could train me to do just that as a career.
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